Showing posts with label Ladies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ladies. Show all posts

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Mary

A Poem by
Joyce MacBeth Morehouse

She came quickly to the Garden
In the dew of early morn;
Hurrying to where they laid Him,
She knelt down to view His form.
But alas! Her Lord was missing!
And these angels? Who are they?
They stood guard in silent witness,
But the stone was rolled away.

As she stood there, weeping, stricken,
Wondering if this gardener knew.
Surely He could help her find Him;
Tell her what she ought to do;
"Can you tell me where they laid Him?
For they took my Lord, it seems."
All her hopes collapsed around her -
Broken heart and broken dreams.

As He eyed her with compassion,
Gazing in her face of fear,
His "Mary" came so gently
That was all she had to hear;
Reaching out in exultation,
Tears of joy,not sorrow, came,
For the tomb was truly empty -
Life would never be the same.



Editor's Note: Sis. Joyce is q licensed minister with the UPCI, living in Doaktown, New Brunswick, Canada - where she attends the United Pentecostal Church, (Pastor Russell H. Morehouse). Her friend, Norma Brewer, (London, Ontario) recommended Sis. Joyce to us, and spoke highly of her writing ministry. This is the first time we've presented her to our readers and are looking forward to more good things! This poem is copyrighted. Used by permission.

Friday, February 28, 2014

A Roomful of Thoughts

By Charlotte M. Wholters

I read something interesting about Martha Stewart. The person who wrote the piece basically said that using her ideas was a way to show off to your friends. I was stunned when I read that because it sounded very like the truth to me! I had never thought of Martha Stewart in that way before. In fact, I've admired her work. Bur what is really more fun; spending three hours making color-coordinated coasters or showing them to your friends? It struck me that Martha Stewart is very appropriately named - Martha.

"It came to pass, as they went, that He entered into a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha received Him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard His Word. But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to Him, and said, Lord, doest Thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? Bid her that she help me. And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: but one thing is needful; and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her." (Luke 10:38-42)

Then I read a quote by Benjamin Franklin that said if all the world was blind but him, he wouldn't care to have a fancy home or furniture. Wow! It makes me wonder how much of what we do is motivated by what others think? I want to spend some time mulling that over and I want to dissect my decisions with that scalpel. This could take a while. It's painful to think this way. Sometimes I think the Lord leads us in a particular direction for a reason.

I think there's a reason why I stumbled across both that point made about both Martha Stewart and Benjamin Franklin's quote recently. It's certainly normal for a married lady and mother of three to worry and grieve about not managing to be like Martha Stewart. But I think the Lord has something better for me! I'm going after that good part; the one thing that's needful: sitting at the feet of Jesus and hearing His Word.
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Editor's Note: Charlotte, her husband James,and their three children; Camilla, Joshua, and Grace, live in Sterling, Virginia. They attend The Original Pentecostals (Pastor Raymond E. Windsor,) in Leesburg, VA. 


Saturday, September 28, 2013

Planning My Funeral

By Rachel Coltharp





I am planning my funeral. 
I know EXACTLY what I want.
The least expensive coffin on the market.
Do NOT waste precious dollars on a fancy box 
that is just going in the ground.  
I was frugal in life, I have a reputation to protect.

Bury me in a size 8. 
Maybe something with lace, or sequins. 
Or even better, lace AND sequins.
I know you'll have to cut it open 
and drape it over me, 
but DO PLEASE bury me in a size 8.

Save your money, don't send flowers.  
Instead, have a meal with someone you love.
Feel free to have tacos, chocolate cake 
and sweet tea to remember me by.

And here is the best part, 
I want THESE words said.


I want my kids to say, 
“My mom was a woman of integrity.  
She lived at home, like she lived in public.” 

I want my husband to say 
“She treated me with dignity and respect, 
and made me want to be my best self. 
Rachel made me proud to be a man.”

I want my neighbors to say, 
“She shared her veggies and flowers with us, 
and our kids always had a safe place 
to play over at her house.  
She sure loved our kids. 
Mrs. Coltharp, she really loved her church.  
She invited me to come every time we talked.”


I want my friends to say, 
“Rachel always told me the truth.  
It wasn’t always what I wanted to hear, 
and I didn’t always agree with her, 
but she always had my best at heart.”

I want my bank account to say 
“She always paid her tithe, 
and gave generously to the Kingdom.”

I want orphaned/abandoned children to say 
“She shared with us when we were alone, 
cold, hurting and hungry.”

I want my Bible to say, 
“She slap WORE ME OUT”..

I want my computer, cell phone, debit card, check book and mailbox to say “She served Christ first with me, herself second.”

I want my house to say, 
I heard her pray every day,   
and watched her disciple her children
 right here within my walls. 
She made me a holy place.”

And I want it all to be true.

So, like I said, I’m planning my funeral.  
Every day.  
Every time I plan a meal.  Every time I open my web browser.  Every time I whip out my debit card.  Every time I pay my tithe.  Every time I open my door to a neighbor, a friend, or a child.  

Every time I reach for my Bible.
Every time I choke back my sarcastic reply, choosing a gracious word instead.  Every time I stifle my irritation and serve with humility, as unto the Lord, and not men.

For when my voice has ceased to speak, 
my words will echo in the hearts of my children.  
When my prayers have ceased to be breathed, 
they will still fan the flames 
in the souls of my loved ones.  
When my fingers stiffen and are folded 
into eternal stillness, 
my life will still touch those I leave behind.
  I’ll be gone.  
But I’ll still be here.

I’m planning my funeral.  
Are you?


Editor's Note: Rachel, wife of Brent Coltharp, who co-pastors First Apostolic Church in Aurora, Illinois, is the mother of four children and wears many hats as she passes through her days. Most of what she has described in the article above are easy to observe in a life that's being well-lived for Jesus.

Sunday, June 30, 2013

Who's the Boss?

By Rachel Coltharp

Submission is not an easy thing. From the moment we are born, we fight for our own way. I am no exception. Submission grates my skin like sandpaper, its grit rubs me raw; exposing the real me underneath. While it goes against our nature, everyone submits to someone.

It's what you do when you choose to be employed. You submit your "mission" of sleeping till noon, talking/texting to your friends all day - to their "mission" of being productive in whatever area they direct. It's what you do when you choose to stop at a red light when you'd rather plow on through because there are no other cars on the road but yours. It's what you do when you choose to pay your taxes rather than spend them on a vacation to Hawaii. Submission is part of our everyday life.

The heavy handed misuse of the principle of submission by non-Christ-like individuals has given it a bad image. The true pattern found in I Peter is that of a husband who takes time, effort, and energy to study and learn his wife - to get a Ph.D. in her! Husbands are instructed in I Peter 3:7 to study her, to honor her, and treat her as an equal in Christ, and is warned that if he doesn't, God will not hear his prayers. In Rachel language, this says, "Look here son, I'm trusting you with my precious baby girl. Get to know her, what makes her tick, and remember she's MINE, before she is yours. Treat her like MY daughter should be treated. And if you don't, don't even bother coming to Me with your petitions for repentance, provision, or protection.

You don't get any more serious than that - to have your connection to the Father cut off. God takes this authority/submission thing seriously. So should we.

As a follower of Christ, I choose submission to my spiritual authority (Pastor) and to my husband. I do not find it to be an easy thing. Simple, yes. Easy, no.

In choosing submission, I find that I learn a LOT about myself. I see that I am often selfish. I see that I am easily irritated. I see that I have a lot of pride. And I would NEVER see these things if I did not choose submission. The weaker me wants things MY way. The undisciplined me wants things MY way. It takes strength and stamina to push past me, the big fat baby me, to get to the best me.

What about you? Who do you submit to? Who has veto power in your life? How are you doing in submitting your will/mission to that of your authority? Do you take your role of spouse/parent/child/spiritual authority seriously?

Everyone follows someone. Everyone leads someone. I beg you to prayerfully consider your role in submission. Someone's soul may be at stake. Maybe yours.

Editor's Note: Rachel Coltharp is the wife of Brent L. Coltharp, (Illinois District Superintendent,) pastor of First Apostolic Church of Aurora, Illinois. She is not only a pastor's wife, but mother of four, friend of many, homeschool teacher extraordinaire, consoler, writer and speaker, and wearer of many hats. Her joy and wisdom reveals her as a modern-day Proverbs 31 lady. It's a privilege to reprint this article written recently.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Little Things Mean a Lot

By Carol Warfield

After some bad experiences, I've never cared much for dogs. They dig up holes in the yard, shed hair on most everything they touch, they bark too loud and upset the neighbors, they chew up things, the smell turns me off, and they've been known to bite people.

One of my granddaughters went to an adoption show and saw this cute little shihtzu and yorkshire mixed dog, mostly black with some white. She decided to buy the dog for $350.00 and brought it home with her. She was raising two young children on her own and had to go to work to support them. Caring for the dog became too much for her, so she called her mother, (my daughter,) to take the dog. As we all know, our parents will, for the most part, be there when their children are in need. Mama took the dog, but she also had a big, dark chocolate lab and a cat, plus two birds and a fish tank. She and her husband work also.

One day, while stiiting in her living room floor, playing with this cute little dog, her husband said, "You have too many pets for us to care for, what with both of us working." So, as she wondered what to do, she felt that the Lord spoke to her and said, "Take the dog to your mother."

"But Lord, she doesn't like dogs!" she thought. The thought came again, "Take it to your mother." This was on a Friday morning. So she said, "If this is You, Lord, when I go there, let my father say, 'I always wanted a dog.'"

She called us and said, "Mom, I'm coming over." I agreed and she came in with this little dog following along. For some reason I couldn't understand, I loved that little cute dog at first sight, I did!

As she sat down in my living room floor with this dog, she began to tell the history of this special little dog. She had been in a hurricane in the south in 2005. She had suffered broken ribs and was with four puppies yet to be born then placed for adoption. As she talked about this dog, named "Minnie," (my mother's name,) my husband, who was suffering with gout in both of his feet and getting around with a walker, was sitting on the couch with the walker in front of him. He leaned over to take hold of the walker with both hands and said, "I always wanted a dog."

My daughter got a big smile on her face and said, "Dad, you just got yourself a dog!" Now we were hoping that Minnie would bond with dad, but that didn't happen. She bonded with me!

The moment that little dog came through our front door, my attitude changed toward dogs. The Lord placed a special love in my heart for this cute little dog. I soon learned that all the things I didn't like about dogs, Minnie didn't do. God designed this little dog especially for me, knowing my likes and dislikes.

For the past two years, the dog will be wherever I am, in the house, on the couch, by the living room table while I'm reading my Bible; she lays right by me. She loves car rides, so if my husband goes to get something at the store, he'll say, "Come on Minnie, you can go." Minnie will come over where I'm sitting and look as if to say, "Mom, are you going?"

I'll say, "No, but you can go." She'll just lay down on the floor as if to say, "If mom doesn't go, neither do I." My husband just laughs and says, "Mom, you got yourself a dog!" I cannot tell you how much joy and pleasure Minnie has given me since coming to live with us.

Extra work? Oh yes! Potty training her that first week, getting up in the night to let her out, keeping her bowl clean and full of water, providing food and treats when she does good, giving her a bath when she starts to smell like a dog, cutting her pretty, long, curly, black hair in the summer to keep her cool; these are just a few of the things involved in taking good care of our pets.

The Scripture comes to mind, "In everything, give thanks." With all my children grown and out of the house, God knew the void it left - time on my hands - and the need of something to care about. This little dog helps to occupy my time, to fill the gap, and keep me feeling needed and loved. He gave me this cute little dog to enjoy while finishing out my years in this life. These dogs live for about fifteen years. I'll be long gone by then and won't have to lay her to rest.

What a wonderful God we serve. He said He would supply all our needs. Thank You, God, for bringing little Minnie all the way from Hurricane Katrina to Michigan to bring happiness to a seventy-three year old lady who needed to know that all dogs are different, just like people. Live and learn!

Editor's Note: Carol Warfield and her husband, Don, senior saints here at New Life, are busy about the work of the Lord. He heads up our Home Bible Study ministry and teaches the Adult Sunday School class in rotation, both serve as ushers, and she reads through the Bible several times a year.

Friday, August 31, 2012

Purchased Pretty vs. Timeless Beauty

By Rachel Coltharp

We are made in the image of God. We, His creation, love beauty. We long for it. We need it. But like all needs, the need for beauty can be twisted to our hurt.

The warped world we live in has taken this need for beauty and turned it into something ugly. Instead of encouraging us to become beautiful through growth, through the practice of the spiritual disciplines, it tells us that we can BUY beauty. We see it in the new in advertisement papers and compare it to last year's new in our closet, and it tells us that we need... We see it in the faux flawless faces and the airbrushed altered bodies on the billboards, and in the face in the mirror cannot compare.

You need this product... [and you'll need a new one tomorrow]
You need this look... [and there will be a new one next season]
You need this thing... [and it will wear out, or go out of style soon]

And the ugly truth behind the lie is that you will wear yourself out running after purchased pretty. Don't let the things that make you beautiful be things on the outside, like the way you arrange your hair, or the clothing you wear. Make sure that your beauty comes from inside you, the unfading beauty of a gentle, quieted spirit, which is highly valued in God's sight. (I Peter 3:3)

This is not saying "Don't wear beautiful things" - it is saying, "Don't let what makes you beautiful be things."

Real beauty can't be bought. It's not in a tube or on a hanger. You can't arrange it, not with a braid, or a pin curl, or with a brush. You can't wear it, you have to grow it.

Fashion fades. Bodies age. But real beauty is a treasure all can afford, and none outgrow.

Editorial Note: Rachel is the wife of Brent Coltharp, pastor of  First Apostolic Church in Aurora, Illinois. Homeschooling mother of four, she writes, speaks, and sings about the goodness of the Lord and the joy of walking with Him.